Despite its importance, networking is difficult for some of us to do. About 25% of us are introverted types who cringe at the thought of meeting new people and networking.
1. Understand what networking IS and what it IS NOT.
2. Recognize and deal with the aspects of networking that bother you most.
3. Realize that relationship building is a skill you can learn.
4. Create a structured plan with goals - and stick to it!
5. Connect to your passion - what field, industry, product, service or cause excites you?
6. Talk to people when your energy is highest
7. Consider having a script ready to direct your conversations—not word-by-word, but with main ideas and points mapped out.
8. Take time to replenish yourself - allow for downtime to recharge and make your networking effective.
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1. Be confident - have an effective handshake and a memorable introduction.
2. Have a 30-second elevator pitch prepared.
3. Take interest and really listen to the other person - remember, you are communicating with their entire network as well!
4. Think of connections you can make for the person with whom you are speaking.
5. Be sure to follow up - send an email or a thank you note!
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15.990 Practicing Management F07
Networking 101 Exercise
Suppose you want to learn more about networking. Here's an idea: Put into practice the tips for effective networking while actually networking at a party! Consider using the opportunity to ask others about networking.
Directions:
1. Find someone at the party whom you don't know at all or know only slightly.
2. Introduce yourself (now's your chance to try out your effective handshakes and memorable introductions!).
3. Use your conversation to learn about their networking experience. The questions below are a starting point if you need some ideas.