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- Temperature-controlled soldering iron
- Fine tip for iron
- Sponge for cleaning iron tip
- Solder wick for cleaning up errors
- Something to cut header connectors with (e.g. band saw, Dremel tool, or depending on header, wire clippers)
- Atmel AVR Programming Cable
Also useful:
- Magnifier for inspecting your work (good one is an Optivisor)
- Big tip for soldering through-hole parts (goes faster, and fine tips are easy to damage when doing big work)
- Big solder for soldering through-hole parts (goes faster)
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